Saying no can be very difficult. People who are very shy often have little confidence. They think that they have to meet everyone’s need. It is very hard for them to say no. they sometimes feel shy if they say no, but doing things that they don’t want to will make them unhappy.
A simple and direct “No” is the best way. If you want to explain, you can keep it simple. Just say, “No, I’ve already made plans for this time” or, “Sorry, I’m afraid I’m not free at that time.”
Other ways of saying no:
▲ I can’t do this right now.
▲ No, but thank for asking.
▲ Please accept that I cannot come.
▲ I’d rather not.
To say no you should:
▲ Start the sentence with the word no.
▲ Shake your head when you say no to make sure they understand. Your voice should be clear and direct. Keep eye contact.
If someone makes a request, it is necessary to ask for time to think it over. The decision should be up to you, but sometimes it is difficult to say no. You can try to reply in the following way:
“Sorry. I would have taken care of your cat next weekend, but I will be going out. I know it will be hard to find someone to take care of the cat. I will try to help you next time.” Remember that: you have the right to say no!
1.What does the writer encourage us to do?
2.How many ways of saying no are mentioned in the passage?
3.Who has a hard time saying no?
4.When you say no, what should you do as well?
5.If you want to refuse someone’s request, what will you say?
Creighton Carvello was called the Memory Man. He could remember hundreds of playing cards and pages of the telephone numbers in only a few seconds.
Creighton was born in India in 1944. He was the middle child of five and his father worked on the railways. In 1949, the Carvello family returned to England and settled(定居) in Middlesbrough, where Creighton spent the rest of his life. His father first noticed his great talent when, aged 7, he started to memorize information from cigarette cards with pictures of planes and cars.
After leaving school, Creighton developed his talent by memorizing more and more information. He soon became popular as he performed in clubs to show his great memory. He remembered the telephone number of anyone called Smith who lived in the Middlesbrough area. He first got into the record books in his thirties. He travelled around the world, showed up on television and amazed the audience with his memory.
Creighton was a man of many talents, including writing songs, drawing and telling jokes.
In his last years, Creightton moved to care home. The old people there would test his memory with questions such as naming what day of the week they were born on. Only days before he died, one lady gave her date of birth, July 29, 1921 and Creighton immediately replied, “Friday”. He died on November 18, 2008.
1.What was Creighton most famous for?
a. His songs b. His jokes c. His drawing d. His memory
2.How many children were older than Creighton in his family?
a. Two b. Three c. Four d. One
3.What happened when Creighton was five?
a. He left school. b.He first got into the record books.
c.His family returned to England. d.His father first noticed his great talent.
4.Which of the following is TRUE according to the passage?
a. Creighton spent the rest of his life in India.
b. Creighton was forced(强迫) to memorize things by his father.
c. Creighton played the piano in clubs after leaving school.
d. Creighton was a talented man.
5.What can we learn from the last paragraph?
a. Creighton didn’t have a family.
b. Creighton died young because he memorized too many things.
c. Creighton died at the age of 60.
d. Creighton still had a good memory several days before he died.
This was not going to be a Mother’s Day as before. A lot of things had changed in the last few months. Usually we would give Mom flowers and take her out for a big meal. We couldn’t afford it this year.
Since I was born, Mom had been able to stay at home with me. We always had enough money to go out to eat two or three times a week if I had behaved well.
All that changed in January.
I could tell that Dad was getting a little angry. Mom would tell me to be quiet and let him rest at night. He’d work later and later.
Beginning in February, Dad tried hard to find another job. But it wasn’t easy for him to find something at the level he used to. He could not bring in as much money. That’s when he asked my mom to go back to work.
After a couple of weeks, Mom found a full-time job at a bank. The pay would be a big help to the family, but now Mom would not be around as much. I didn’t like it. I now had to stay in the after-school care program instead of going home and playing in my neighborhood. Too bad was, as soon as I did get home, I had to help get dinner ready, because Mom wouldn’t get home until after 6:00. I really missed the past time.
a) This was not going to be a Mother’s Day as before because the writer’s father wasn’t in
b) The writer’s home used to be rich.
c) His family changed because his father was mad.
d) In February, the writer’s mother started to work at a bank.
e) The writer really wanted his mother to stay with him
In Britain you may often hear “Drop in any time” or “Come to see me soon”, but you can’t really do that. People just say those things to make you feel welcome. It is better to telephone before visiting someone at home. If you receive a written invitation to an event that says “RSVP”, you should reply to let the person who sent the invitation know whether or not you plan to go.
You should never accept an invitation unless you really plan to go. You may refuse by saying. “Thank you for inviting me, but I will not be able to com.” If, after accepting, you are unable to go, be sure to tell those who are expecting you as soon as possible that you will not be there. Although it is not necessarily expected that you give a gift to your host, it is considered polite to do so, especially if you have been invited for a meal. Flowers, chocolate, or a small gift are appropriate(合适的). A thank-you note or telephone call after the visit is also considered polite and is an appropriate way to express your appreciation for the invitation.
1.What can you do when a British friend says, “Drop in anytime”?
a. Visit him or her at any time.
b. Say no to him or her seriously.
c. Telephone him or her before visiting.
2.What does the word “RSVP” probably mean in Chinese?
a. 请自便 b.请回复 c.请审阅
3.What should you do if your British friend sends you an invitation but you do not want to go?
a. Do not give him or her an answer.
b. Tell another friend to go instead of you.
c. Tell him or her that you can’t be there for some reason.
4. Which of the following is considered impolite in Britain?
a. Buy small presents when invited.
b. Refuse the invitation without telling anyone.
c. Write a thank-you note after a visit.
5.Where would you probably see this passage?
a. In an invitation b. In a guidebook c. On a poster
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Secretary needed Shenzhen Computer Sales Company is looking for a full-time secretary(a lady aged 22-30). Must have excellent typing, telephone, and computer skills. 60,000yuan a year. Send your resume(简历) to: Shenzhen Computer Corner, 518000 Or email us: Shenzhenppp@163.com |
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Delivery Person Wanted (A man aged 18 to 40) Part-time. Driver’s license required. Must be able to work in evenings and on weekends. 10.00yuan per hour. Call 5780505 to tell your information to Miss Zhang , or come to visit us(No.2906, LP Road, KFC, Shenzhen) at business hour(518112). |
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Looking for a Japanese Teacher Shenzhen Foreign language School is looking for a full-time female Japanese teacher. Must have at least two years’ experience (under 35 years old). Call Mr. Smith for an appointment. Tel:6790393 E-mail: MKSD@126.com Web: http://SZFS.com.cn |
1.How much can a secretary make one month?
a. 60,000yuan. b. 6,000yuan c. 50,000yuan d. 5,000yuan
2.Who can apply(申请) for the job as a secretary?
a. Miss Li, 25 years old, having a driver’s license
b. Mr. Wang, 24 years old, having typing, telephone and computer skills
c. Miss Zhang, 20 years old, having typing, telephone, and computer skills
d. Mrs. Lin, 29 years old, having typing, telephone, and computer skills.
3. What number should you call to be a delivery person for KFC?
a. 5780505 b. 518000 c. 6790393 d. 518112
4.Which of the following is NOT true?
a. As a delivery man in KFC, you can get 10.00yuan per hour.
b. Mrs Zhao can work in evenings and on weekends, so she can work as a delivery person.
c. Shenzhen Foreign Language School is looking for a Japanese teacher.
d. You can’t apply for the teaching job if you have just graduated this year.
5.Where can we find these advertisements?
a. In a book on traveling.
b. In a newspaper in Shenzhen.
c. In Mrs Smith’s QQ zone(空间)
d. On Shenzhen Computer Sales Company’s website.
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If you had a chance to cook dinner for your mother, would you choose to make it right now or some day in the future? Watch the video Paradise Dinner<天堂的午餐> 1._______ Liu Xiaoyu, a college student, and you will find a right answer.
Paradise Dinner is a six-minute video. It tells the story of a son 2. _______ makes a big dinner for his 3. _______, but he can only send the dinner to paradise 4. _______ his mother has passed away.
“If you do not show your love to your mother right now, you might 5. _______ have the opportunity in the future, for your mother is 6. _______ older and older day by day-this is the main theme of 7. _______ video,” said liu.
Liu imagined the story of Paradise Dinner during his 2010 summer vacation. In fact, Liu was hardly 8. _______ with Paradise Dinner when he finished it. However, screening the video to his parents, he 9. _______ them moved to tears by his successful completion, which encouraged him to post the video onto the Internet later, and then entered it in the Beijing University Student Film Festival.
Many web users later said they greatly 10. _______ the video, and most of them said they cried right along with Liu’s parents.
