Question

阅读下列短文,根据短文中的信息完成文后表格。在标有题号的横线上，写出空缺处所填单词的正确形式。（每空一词）

What do we really mean by being open? Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share. It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel. In this way we will be understood and accepted by others. If we aren’t open with others, we won’t fully believe in ourselves or others.

Here are a few ways for you to be more open. First, make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions. Third, try to change your questions into statements(陈述) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily. For example, you might say, “I feel happy that you’re here,” instead of, “Are you glad that you’re here?” Finally, try not to say, “I don’t know.” This usually means I don’t want to think about it any more.

Remember also that it is not suitable to be open with everyone in every situation. You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you. Besides, some people may not be used to too much openness. If we say everything we feel or think to them, they will feel very uncomfortable at times.

In all, being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people, but we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

Title: Being open
Meanings of being open	1.  others to come in, to speak and to share. Show others    2.   we think and feel. Let others ___3.___ and accept us. Believe in ourselves and others by being open.
4.  to be more open	Make 5. your outside behavior is the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. Try to share your   6. feelings. Make statements instead of 7.and use the first person. Try not to say, “I don’t know.”
Reasons for not being too open	Someone may use your  8.  to hurt you. You will make them feel very uncomfortable  9..
Conclusion: It will   10. us get on well with others if we keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

Answer

1.Invite

2.how/what

3.understand

4.Ways

5.sure

6.real/true

7.questions

8.information

9.sometimes

10.make/help

【解析】

试题分析：这篇短文中主要谈论了交际中的一个开放问题，作者对此提出了几点建议，并提醒我们不要对人太开放。

1.根据第一段Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share.描述,可知填Invite,邀请.

2.根据第一段It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel. 描述,可知此处指的是,向其他人展示我们的所想所感.故填:how/what,怎样/什么。

3.根据第一段In this way we will be understood and accepted by others.描述，可知此处指的是，让其他人明白并接受我们。故填，understand，明白，理解。

4.根据第二段Here are a few ways for you to be more open.及右栏描述，可知此处指的是如何变得更开放的方法。结合语境可知填复数名词Ways，方法。

5.根据第二段First, make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. 描述，可知此处指的是，确保你的言行一致。故填sure，确信的，可靠的。

6.根据第二段Second, share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions.描述，可知尽力展示你的真实感情。结合语境及汉语提示，可知填形容词real/true，真实的。

7.根据第二段Third, try to change your questions into statements(陈述) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily. 描述，可知填questions，问题。

8.根据第三段but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you.描述，可知此处指的是有人可能利用你的信息来伤害你。故填information，消息，信息。

9.根据第三段If we say everything we feel or think to them, they will feel very uncomfortable at times.描述，可知填sometimes，有时。

10.根据最后一段描述，可知此处指的是，如果我们能在开放与不太开放之间保持好平衡，这将有助于我们友好与他人相处。结合语境可知填原形动词make/help，使得/有助于。

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