In the eyes of many foreigners, Chinese are the best hosts and the worst guests in the world. And western hosts sometimes look impolite in the eyes of Chinese guests. It’s because the guest- host relationship in China is quite different from that in some western countries.
In China, guests are almost like gods. Whenever I enter a Chinese friend’s home, there is always fruit on the table for me, and someone is quick to bring me a cup of tea or water. In the west, generally the guest is not a god. Acting according to the host’s way of doing things is usual behavior for a guest.
My wife’s mother, a very kind Chinese lady, doesn’t smoke. When I see her guests smoking in her house, as a non-smoker, I feel unhappy. Usually, I want to stop them directly, but I must realize that in China, to be a good host, she must not do that. In most North American homes, if you are a guest, and the hosts are not smokers, you should ask, “Is it OK if I smoke?” But don’t be surprised if they say, “No.” In my culture, if you smoke in their house, you are a bad guest, but if they don't allow you to smoke in their house, they are not impolite hosts.
Guests in China also have special habits. They usually give hosts gifts when visiting a Chinese family. However, it’s not necessary in my country. So if you invite foreign guests to your home, don’t be too surprised if they don’t bring you a gift.
In a word, no matter where you are, the best way to be a good guest is to adapt (适应) to the habits of your hosts.
1.When a western guest visits a Chinese family, he is often regarded as a god.
2.The writer’s wife’s mother will stop her guests smoking because she isn’t a smoker.
3.According to the article, the writer is probably a Chinese.
4.It’s necessary for a guest to give the host a gift when visiting a western family.
5.The writer tells us to act as the host does when visiting someone’s home.
Some children are natural-born bosses. They have a strong need to lead rather than follow. Stephen Jackson, a first-grade student, does everything under the idea of what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. His mother said, "The other day I bought two new toy cars. Later, I saw Stephen with the two new ones while his brother was playing with the old ones. "
"Examine the whole big family, and you'll probably find a bossy relative in every generation. It's inheritable (遗传的),"says Russell Barkley, who has studied bossy behavior for over 30 years at a university. "Other children who may not be so bossy can gradually get dominance when they sense their parents are weak, hesitant (犹豫的), or in disagreement with each other.
Whether it's inborn nature or developed character, too much control in the hands of the young isn't healthy for children or the family. "In fact a lot of bossy behavior comes from fear," says family psychologist John Taylor. "Children have secret feelings of weakness and a strong wish to feel safe. It's the parents' role to offer that protection," he says in his book.
"I see more and more parents giving up their power," says Barkley, "because they don't want to be as strict as their own parents were. But they also feel less confident (自信的) about their parenting skills. "
When a "boss child" doesn't learn limits(限制) at home, he may cause troubles outside the family, such as having trouble keeping friends.
So for the children, parents should be strict with them in a proper way and get more knowledge to be good parents.
1.From the passage, Stephen Jackson is __________________.
A.lonely
B.hesitant
C.bossy
D.strict
2.The underlined word dominance in Paragraph 2 probably means __________________.
A.control
B.improvement
C.service
D.understanding
3.John Taylor says that __________________ in his book.
A.bossy children are usually fearful
B.bossy children usually feel safe
C.bossy behavior is inheritable
D.bossy behavior is inborn nature
4.In the opinion of Barkley, more and more parents give up their power because __________________.
A.they feel confident abour their parenting skills
B.they want to be as strict as their own parents
C.they want to be less strict with their children
D.they are proud of having bossy children
5.The passage mainly tells us __________________.
A.why children have trouble keeping friends
B.how we can get along with bossy children
C.how bossy behavior influence children
D.what leads to children's bossy behavior
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1.If you are crazy about sculptures, you can phone ________.
A.84550888
B.84550999
C.85379001
D.84537568
2.From the second ad, we can learn that ________.
A.children can go to the theme park on Tuesday with their friends
B.the theme park is open for 10 hours in summer
C.visitors can take pet dogs to the theme park with them
D.if you have heart problem, the theme park is not a good choice
3.If you want to see animal samples with your father, you should pay ________.
A.60 yuan
B.240 yuan
C.360 yuan
D.nothing
4.________ is the title for #1, #2 and #3 separately.
a. Movie Wonderland b. Natural History Museum c. Sculpture Park
A.a-b-c
B.b-c-a
C.c-a-b
D.c-b-a
5.The three ads above are probably from ________.
A.a newspaper
B.a storybook
C.a science magazine
D.a survey
In my earliest memories, I used to wait for my dad back home from work every night. After putting his wallet and car keys away on the table, he'd smile,_________________me his comb (木梳) and say, "Be a good girl and clean it, OK?"
I was happy to do it. I'd clean the comb as well as I could._________________that I'd done a good job，I'd return the comb to Dad. He would_________________at me, and put the comb on top of his_________________.
Two years later, dad left his job and started his own business. That was when things started to change. Dad's business wasn't doing so well,_________________he didn't come home as much as he used to. It was always_________________when he got home. Over the years, I stopped_________________for him to come home and we seldom had a talk together.
Years later, Dad's business started to do well. However, the uncomfortable_________________between Dad and me continued.
Two days before my birthday last year, Dad came home early. As usual, I helped him to carry his bags into his study._________________I turned to leave, he said "Hey，would you like to help me clean my comb?" I__________________him for a while, then took the comb and walked to the toilet.
I__________________then, as a child, helping my dad clean his comb meant that he was home early to spend the evening with Mom and me. It meant a happy and loving__________________.
When I passed the comb back to Dad, I noticed something__________________, my dad had wrinkles(皱纹) when he smiled, yet his smile was still as sweet as before.
Dad still__________________puts his comb on top of his wallet when he gets home. I guess some things__________________change. And for that, I'm glad.
1.A.hand B.send C.hold D.lend
2.A.Worried B.Disappointed C.Surprised D.Satisfied
3.A.point B.shout C.smile D.laugh
4.A.wallet B.bag C.bed D.chair
5.A.but B.and C.nor D.or
6.A.rapid B.scary C.late D.early
7.A.calling B.guessing C.waiting D.answering
8.A.praise B.competition C.difference D.silence
9.A.After B.When C.Until D.Since
10.A.listened to B.looked at C.discussed with D.played with
11.A.decided B.realized C.promised D.doubted
12.A.family B.journey C.business D.word
13.A.impossible B.enjoyable C.similar D.different
14.A.hurriedly B.hopefully C.carefully D.tiredly
15.A.never B.always C.still D.already
A: Hello, this is Changying Concert Hall. Can I help you?
B: Hi. 1.
A: Hold on a moment, please! Uh, yes, there are a few left.
B: That's great! 2.
A: At 7:30. And it will last about two hours.
B: Sounds good. How can I book it?
A: 3. Either WeChat or Alipay is Okay.
B: Got it. Where can I get the ticket?
A: 4. You'd better arrive at least half an hour before the show starts.
B: All right. By the way, is there a parking lot nearby?
A: Yes，there's one.
B: 5.
A: You're welcome. What else can I do for you?
B: Nothing much. Bye.
A.When will it start?
B.Thank you for your help. .
C.Because Langlang is my favorite pianist.
D.Do you still have tickets to the piano concert tonight?
E.You can get an e-ticket online or exchange the paper ticket at the gate.
F.Just go to our website, fill in your information, choose a seat and pay online
— Can you go to Jilin Province Library with me tomorrow?
— ________________. I enjoy reading there.
A.Here you are B.Sure. I'd love to C.You're welcome D.Take it casy
