Some people think only school children do not agree with their parents, however, it is not true. Communication is a problem for parents and children of all ages. If it's hard for you to communicate with your parents, don't worry about it. Here are some advice for you to deal with communication problem with your parents.
Don't argue with your parents. Don't approach(靠近) your parents when you are angry. Your parents probably won't consider your ideas if you are shouting at them. And you can't express yourself well if you are angry. Go someplace to cool off. Make sure you understand why you are unhappy. Then think about what you want to say to your parents. If you don't think you can speak to them at the moment, try writing a letter.
Try to reach a compromise (和解). Perhaps you and your parents disagree on something. You can keep your disagreement and try your best to do something to make each other understood. Here is a good example. Michael's mother didn't agree with him about buying a motorcycle. They argued about it. Michael expressed his ideas patiently and they finally came to a compromise. Michael bought the motorcycle, but only drove it on certain days.
Of course, your parents might refuse something. In these situations, it is especially important to show love and respect to them. Showing respect will keep your relationship strong.
Talk about your opinions. The opinions of your parents are probably different from those of your own. Tell your parents what you care about, and why. Understanding your thoughts might help them see your purposes in life.
A good relationship with your parents can make you a better and happier person. It is worth having a try!
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You don't need to ________________ it when you have trouble talking with your parents.
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You can try ________________ when you cannot speak to them at the moment.
3.简略回答问题
What should you do if your parents refuse you?
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4.找出并写下全文的主题句
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5.将文中画线句子翻译成汉语
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Dear Li Hua，
How's everything going? Congratulations on your graduation from junior high school!
I hope you have a great time during the holiday, but there is something important for you to think about—a plan for your personal growth. Here is some advice for you.
Firstly, study yourself. Understand what you like, what you value and what you want to be. In studying yourself, you check your strengths(长处) and weaknesses. Find out what you need to prepare for your dream job.
Secondly, write down your plan. When writing, you can try using Mind Maps(思维导图). It is a good way to help you to think more clearly. And you may find a proper way to work your plan out.
Thirdly, go over your plan with your teachers, parents or friends. They may give you some advice. Think carefully about their advice and make some changes to your plan if necessary. And then you can go on with it.
Finally, work hard to realize your dream. For example, if you want to be an English teacher in the future, you should spend more time reading English books, learning more about English culture and practicing your listening and speaking from now on. You can make your dream come true only through hard work.
You may find it difficult to make the plan now. Don't worry. All you need is just a rough(粗略的) one. Once you enter the senior high school, you'll get a chance to make it better with the help of your teachers. And your personal growth plan may change with your age, your interests and the social development. So take your time and I believe you will grow into an excellent young man.
Best wishes!
Yours，
Li Fang
1.The writer gives ________ pieces of advice on Li Hua's personal growth.
A.two B.three C.four D.five
2.According to the passage, a personal growth plan in your lifetime may change with the following things except ________．
A.your Mind Maps B.your age C.the social development D.your interests
3.The underlined word “study” in Paragraph 3 probably means “________” in Chinese.
A.学习 B.审视 C.帮助 D.调查
4.In the letter, Li Fang mainly wants to tell Li Hua ________．
A.how to spend the holiday happily
B.how to prepare for his dream job
C.how to make his personal growth plan
D.how to review the plan with his friends
To ________ your goal needs not only long hard work, but also a positive attitude.
A.regard B.forget C.separate D.achieve
Lucy was ________ from class again. This made her teacher very angry.
A.absent B.busy C.close D.thirsty
(2017秦皇岛一模) They changed their mind at the last ________ and refused to go out at midnight.
A.market B.memory C.moment D.museum
I think you should find a ________ way to solve this problem instead of complaining all the time.
A.proper B.awful C.difficult D.upset
