There are hundreds of things that your parents controlled for you when you were a child．And it’s a good thing, too — kids need this kind of protection and assistance, because they aren’t mature enough to take care of themselves and make careful decisions on their own．
But eventually, kids grow up and become teens．It’s totally normal for teens to create their own opinions, thoughts, and values about life; it’s what prepares them for adulthood．But as you change and grow into this new person who makes his or her own decisions, your parents may have a difficult time adjusting themselves to it．
In most families, it’s this adjustment that can cause a lot of fighting between teens and parents．Teens get angry because they feel parents don’t respect them and aren’t giving them space to do what they like, and parents get angry because they aren’t used to not being in control or they disagree with the teens’ decisions．
It’s easy for feelings to get very hurt when there are conflicts like these．And more complicated issues can cause even bigger arguments, because your parents will always be intent on protecting you and keeping you safe, no matter how old you are．
The good news about fighting with your parents is that in many families the arguing will lessen as parents get more comfortable with the idea that their teens have a right to certain opinions．It can take several years for parents and teens to adjust to their new roles, though．In the meantime, concentrate on communicating with your parents as best you can．
Sometimes this can feel impossible — like they just don’t see your point of view and never will．But talking and expressing your opinions can help you gain more respect from your parents, and you may be able to reach a compromise that makes everyone happy．Keep in mind, too, that your parents were teens once and that in most cases, they can relate to what you’re going through．
1.Why do parents always want to control their children?
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A．They are afraid to lose their children． |
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B．They want to protect their children． |
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C．They don’t believe the ability of their children． |
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D．They can’t accept their children are growing． |
2.The author suggested that teenagers ________．
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A．fight with their parents bravely for their rights |
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B．obey their parents without any doubt |
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C．communicate with their parents actively |
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D．persuade their parents in as many ways as possible |
3.It can be inferred from the passage that ________．
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A．most parents will give in while fighting with their children |
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B．the conflict between parents and teenagers can be solved |
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C．the only way for teens to get freedom is to leave home |
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D．only few parents do well in facing the growth of their children |
Psychologists tell us that there are four basic stages that human beings pass through when they enter and live in a new culture．This process begins with the “honeymoon stage”．This is the period of time when we first arrive in which everything about the new culture is strange and exciting．We may be suffering from “jet lag” but we are thrilled to be in the new environment, seeing new sights, hearing new sounds and language, eating new kinds of food．This stage can last for quite a long time because we feel we are involved in some kind of great adventure．
Unfortunately, the second stage can be more difficult．After we have settled down into our new life, we can become very tired and begin to miss our homeland and our family, friends, pets．All the little problems in life seem to be much bigger and more disturbing when you face them in a foreign culture．This period of cultural adjustment can be very difficult and lead to rejecting or pulling away from the new culture．
The third stage is called the “adjustment stage”．This is when you begin to realize that things are not so bad in the host culture．Your sense of humour usually becomes stronger and you realize that you are becoming stronger by learning to take care of yourself in the new place．Things are still difficult, but you are now a survivor!
The fourth stage can be called “at ease at last”．Now you feel quite comfortable in your new surroundings．You can cope（deal） with most problems that occur．You may still have problems with the language, but you know you are strong enough to deal with them．
1.This passage mainly talks about ________．
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A．culture and foreign language learning |
B．adventures in a foreign land |
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C．getting used to a new culture |
D．the interaction of different cultures |
2.Which of the following best describes the first stage?
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A．Lonely and depressed |
B．Bored and homesick |
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C．Happy and excited |
D．Angry and frustrated |
3.According to the passage, people are most likely to return to their own culture at the ________stage．
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A．1st |
B．2nd |
C．third |
D．fourth |
4.It can be concluded from the passage that ________．
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A．people feel better in their own culture |
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B．it is not easy to adapt to a new culture |
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C．culture shock doesn’t occur at the beginning |
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D．it is human nature to long for adventures |
He's an old cobbler （修鞋匠） with a shop in the Marais, a historic area in Paris．When I took him my shoes, he at first told me: “I haven't time．Take them to the other fellow on the main street ; he'll fix them for you right away．”
But I'd had my eye on his shop for a long time．Just looking at his bench loaded with tools and pieces of leather, I knew he was a skilled craftsman． “No,” I replied, “the other fellow can't do it well．”
“The other fellow” was one of those shopkeepers who fix shoes and make keys “while-U-wait” — without knowing much about mending shoes or making keys．They work carelessly, and when they have finished sewing back a sandal strap （鞋带） you might as well just throw away the pair．
My man saw I wouldn't give in, and he smiled．He wiped his hands on his blue apron （围裙）, looked at my shoes, had me write my name on one shoe with a piece of chalk and said, “Come back in a week．”
I was about to leave when he took a pair of soft leather boots off a shelf．
“See what I can do?” he said with pride． “Only three of us in Paris can do this kind of work．”
When I got back out into the street, the world seemed brand-new to me．He was something out of an ancient legend, this old craftsman with his way of speaking familiarly, his very strange, dusty felt hat, his funny accent from who-knows-where and, above all, his pride in his craft．
These are times when nothing is important but the bottom line, when you can do things any old way as long as it “pays”, when, in short, people look on work as a path to ever-increasing consumption （消费） rather than a way to realize their own abilities．In such a period it is a rare comfort to find a cobbler who gets his greatest satisfaction from pride in a job well done．
1.Which of the following is true about the old cobbler?
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A．He was equipped with the best repairing tools． |
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B．He was the only cobbler in the Marais． |
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C．He was proud of his skills． |
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D．He was a native Parisian． |
2.The sentence “He was something out of an ancient legend．” （ paragraph 7 ） implies that______
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A．nowadays you can hardly find anyone like him |
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B．it was difficult to communicate with this man |
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C．the man was very strange |
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D．the man was too old |
3.According to the author, many people work just to__________．
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A．realize their abilities |
B．gain happiness |
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C．make money |
D．gain respect |
4.This story wants to tell us that__________．
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A．craftsmen make a lot of money |
B．whatever you do, do it well |
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C．craftsmen need self-respect |
D．people are born equal |
It takes more than knowledge and intelligence to ______ a good researcher．
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A．make |
B．turn |
C．get |
D．grow |
We ____ that the magazines you have borrowed be returned to the school library before the end of this month．
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A．hoped |
B．permitted |
C．wished |
D．required |
Look! Tom is too sleepy to work．He _______ up watching TV．
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A．mustn't have stayed |
B．shouldn't have stayed |
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C．mustn't stay |
D．ought not to say． |
