Do you remember the game “Telephone”? A message gets passed from person to person, and everyone laughs at how distorted(曲解) it becomes. As a game, telephone can be fun. In real life, sending messages through third parties fouls things up. It is important for family members who have “business” with other family members to take it up directly.
When tension arises in a relationship between two people, a frequent way of dealing with this is to send messages through a third person. Family doctors refer to the process as ‘triangulation”. Following a quarrel, a mother may say to her son, “Tell your father to pass the salt”, which may be answered by, “Tell your mother to get her own salt.” In many long cases of triangulation, the middleman becomes severely disturbed.
Two years ago, Ruth and Ralph Gordon brought their 17-year-old daughter for treatment. Lucille was not doing well in school, using drugs heavily. When I began to work with her, she was uncommunicative and aggressive. After some time, however, she opened up and told me her parents rarely talked to each other, but both used her as a middleman. Mrs. Gordon was sexually unsatisfied and suggested to Lucille that she ask her father to go for marriage advice. Mr. Gordon told Lucille that he was seeing another woman, and he urged Lucille to speak to her mother about improving her behaviour. Caught in this confusing situation, Lucille became more and more troubled. It wasn’t until she refused to play middleman that she began to improve. When either parent began to send a message through her, she learned to say, “Tell him/her yourself!”
You’ll find that when family members learn to dial each other directly, there’s rarely a busy signal or wrong number. With direct dialing, a sense of freshness is created.
1.The underlined words “foul things up” in the 1st paragraph means ________.
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A．create things |
B．improve things |
C．remove things |
D．ruin things |
2.“Triangulation” in the 2nd paragraph refers to _________.
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A．the process of sending messages through a 3rd person |
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B．the middleman who becomes severely disturbed |
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C．the tension in a relationship between 2 people |
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D．the argument between a mother and a father |
3. Through the example of Lucille and her parents, the writer hopes to tell the readers that _______.
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A．family members should learn to get their messages across directly |
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B．parents should send their children taking drugs for treatment |
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C．children can hardly get used to their parents’ troubles |
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D．children should refuse the requests of their parents |
I recently heard a story about a famous research scientist who had made several very important medical breakthroughs. What set him so far apart from others?
He1.that, in his opinion, it all came from an2.from his mother that happened when he was about 2 years old. He had been trying to3.a bottle of milk from the refrigerator when he lost his 4.on the slippery(光滑的) bottle and it 5., making its contents pouring all over the kitchen floor.
When his mother came into the kitchen, instead of6.at him, giving him a lecture, or punishing him, she said: “Robert, what an(a)7.and wonderful mess you have made! I have8.seen such a huge pool of milk. Well, the damage has already been done. Would you like to9.down and play in the milk for a few10.before we clean it up?”
Indeed, he did. After a few minutes, his mother said: “You know, Robert,11.you make a mess like this, you have to clean it up at last and restore everything to its proper12.. So, how would you like to do that? We could use a sponge, a towel, or a mop. Which do you13.?” He chose the sponge and together they14.up the milk.
His mother then said: “You know, what happened just now is a15.experiment in how effectively to carry a big milk bottle with two tiny hands. Let’s16.out in the back yard and fill the bottle with water and see if you can17.a way to carry it without dropping it.” The little boy18.that if he held the bottle at the top near the lip with both hands, he could carry it without dropping it.
This scientist then19.that it was at that moment that he knew he didn’t need to be afraid to make20..
Wouldn’t it be great if all parents would respond the way Robert’s mother responded to him?
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The newly-built shopping mall provides goods that compete ______ product quality, reliability and above all variety.
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A．in honor of |
B．in terms of |
C．in the name of |
D．in the form of |
It seems that most educators ______ the plan for Advanced Assessment for Admission, which gives rise to a complete reform of College Entrance Exams.
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A．consist of |
B．complain of |
C．approve of |
D．dream of |
I don’t believe what he told us about meeting Yi Zhongtian. I think he was ______ the story.
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A．making up |
B．taking up |
C．keeping up |
D．bringing up |
I turned back only to find an old schoolmate whose name ______ me for the moment.
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A．avoided |
B．escaped |
C．failed |
D．slipped |
