I really hadn't meant to yell(吼叫)at them.But that grey afternoon saw it just as my son and daughter were making a terrible mess on the floor in the kitchen.
With a tiresome report to write,I felt bothered at my desk.Suddenly, it occurred to me that my kids were at fault.A voice inside me insisted that I do something quickly.
“OK,you two here.but what an awful thing you are attempting!” shouting angrily, I made for them, while it became evident that the boy wanted no part of me.“Get away from us!” he shouted back,there being expression of support from his sister.
All of a sudden,I found the fault in myself.Quickly I shaped my hands into pincers(螃蟹螯)and crawled towards them,“Crabby(似螃蟹的)Daddy is here Ha,Ha,Ha,he likes to yell at children,and then eat them!” My son continued to keep me away,but now he was laughing and crying at the same time.My mission to repair the damage caused by my yelling seemed to work well.Still,I regretted not having controlled myself first in a right way that my children could do after.
Need I let them know how badly they were acting by blaming? This is a lesson that serves myself.It only shows just how to get rid of something(ill-feelings,responsibility)by blaming others.It's not my “best self”.
We have to search for our “best self” when with our children.They don't need perfect parents,but they do need parents who are always trying to get better.Here,I'm reminded of the words of a great thinker,“When a man lives with God,his voice shall be as sweet as the murmur of the brook…” Then,in our lifetime,couldn't we always speak to our kids in such a sweet voice since,most of us consider them as the most precious in the world? And before we reach this level,what should we do when we come across various difficult cases with our children?
1.The author couldn't help yelling at his kids this time probably because______.
A.the weather was so unpleasant |
B.a Daddy has his right to do so |
C.the kids didn't ask him to join them |
D.he was tired of his boring work |
2.Which of the following made the author aware of his fault?
A.No obvious reason. |
B.The children’s reaction. |
C.His self-control. |
D.The mess made by the children. |
3.According to the passage the author will in another similar situation.
A.play a crab again like this time |
B.apologize to kids in a sincere way |
C.avoid blaming kids in a hurry |
D.beat them up about such things |
4.What will the writer go on to write about in the next paragraph(s)?
A.How to behave ourselves properly when kids are at fault. |
B.How to blame our children in a more interesting way. |
C.How to deal with the terrible mess made by our kids. |
D.How to persuade children to do what they are told to. |
“So teach him to close the door”, my daughter Emma responded after listening to me 36 , again, about the dog coming in from the back door, bringing with him a blast of Buffalo January 37 air.
Teach a dog to close a door behind him? That has got to be a really, really 38 thing to do.But then she took it a step 39 .“Come on, Kolby”, she said, grabbing some treats(犒劳物) and 40 him in front of the open door.“Touch.” And “touch” he did, which moved the door to a 41 position.She 42 him with a treat, smiled, looked at me, and said “see!” And I saw and became 43 .Over the last few days I have been with Kolby.Each time he comes in I bring him back to the 44 door and ask him to close.There have been 45 in the beginning, but lately more and more successes.
However, there remains much work to be done.I have to get him to follow my hand signal again and again 46 he will close the door from a distance.But, I now realize, as long as you keep to the focus , the 47 will be completed, and, with the way things are 48 , completed quickly.
What a 49 treat to have a dog that can close the door after himself! Even more wonder can be found in the 50 I learned so clearly from both Emma and Kolby.
A wish is just a wish until you decide to take 51 .Once you 52 the belief that it is “too hard”, then it remains “too hard ” and out of 53 .Once you want to accomplish a goal, and 54 that it is “easy”, then it becomes “easy” to do what needs to be done.Just 55 doing it.
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—Would you be able to go to the party ?
— I have to pick up my friend at the airport.
A.I’d love to. |
B.I’m afraid not. |
C.Absolutely! |
D.Why not? |
You job here is only _____, for you will be removed from it when we have a proper post for you.
A.permanent |
B.contemporary |
C.temporary |
D.fundamental |
After her son’s death, the old lady _____ sit at the window, deep in thought.
A.would |
B.should |
C.could |
D.might |
Police are searching for an escaped criminal who is reported to _____ since he broke away from the prison.
A.have been missing |
B.have lost |
C.be missing |
D.get lost |