Victor’s hobby was collecting stamps. He had stamps from many countries, like England, Canada and China. On his birthday, can you guess what people gave him? That’s right—stamps.
Victor’s favorite stamps came from France. He had almost every stamp from 1954 to 2004. He only needed one. That was a 1974 special edition*. It was very hard to find.
He looked for it everywhere. He asked his friends and relatives to help him. But nobody could find the stamp. It made Victor very sad.
“Don’t worry. Never give up,” his father said to him. “If you have enough patience, you’ll find it one day.”
“I hope so,” Victor said.
Victor also liked writing. He had a pen friend in France. They wrote to each other every month. Victor’s pen friend, Phillip, usually used new stamps to send letters. Sometimes, his mother gave him stamps to use. Once Phillip’s mother gave him a big, green stamp. It looked old. When Victor received the letter, he was very surprised. On the envelope, he looked carefully at the stamp. It was the 1974 special edition stamp. Victor was so happy. He told his sister, his mother and his father.
“You see,” his father said. “You did find your stamp. So, it’s good to have two things in life. ”
“What are they?” Victor asked.
“Friends and patience.” He answered.
1.It was very difficult for Victor to find a special French stamp of _________.
A.1954 |
B.1974 |
C.1994 |
D.2004 |
2.Who owned the special edition stamp at the very beginning?
A.Phillip. |
B.Phillip’s mother. |
C.Victor. |
D.Victor’s father. |
3.The passage mainly tells us that ________ is(are)important to people.
A.a happy family |
B.a good hobby |
C.relatives and friendship |
D.friends and patience |
I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our 36 , and especially if it’s given from the 37 . When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but 38 them. Just take them 39 . Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than 40 it.
One of my patients told me that when she 41 to tell her story, people often 42 to tell her that they had once had something just like that happen to her. Subtly her pain became a story about themselves. 43 she stopped talking to most people. It was just too 44 . We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the 45 of attention to ourselves. But when we listen, they know we care.
I have ever learned to 46 to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(纸巾) 47 I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them 48 , to take them out of their 49 of sadness and pain. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there 50 them.
This 51 thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been 52 since I was very young at school. I thought people listened only because they were too 53 to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has far more 54 to connect than the most well-intentioned 55 .
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There are some students ______ to have known what they don’t really know, which is really harmful to them.
A.pretending |
B.to pretend |
C.pretended |
D.pretend |
The _____ boy never dares to see the ____ film again.
A.frightened; frightening |
B.frightening; frightened |
C.frightened; frightened |
D.frightening; frightening |
--- We expected you yesterday.
--- I'm sorry, I you to say that I couldn't be here until today.
A.must have called |
B.would be calling |
C.could have been calling |
D.should have called |
He is ____our teacher; he is also our best friend.
A.less than |
B.rather than |
C.more than |
D.better than |