Sometimes you’ll hear people say that you can’t love others until you love yourself. Sometimes you’ll hear people say that you can’t expect someone else to love you until you love yourself. Either way, you’ve got to love yourself first and this can be tricky(棘手的). Sure we all know that we’re the apple of our parents’ eyes, and that our Grandmas think we’re great talents and our Uncle Roberts think that we will go to the Olympics, but sometimes it’s a lot harder to think such nice thoughts about ourselves. If you find that believing in yourself is a challenge, it is time you build a positive self-image and learn to love yourself.
Self-image is your own mind’s picture of yourself. This image includes the way you look, the way you act, the way you talk and the way you think. Interestingly, our self-images are often quite different from the images others hold about us. Unfortunately, most of these images are more negative than they should be. Thus changing the way you think about yourself is the key to changing your self-image and your whole world.
The best way to defeat a passive self-image is to step back and decide to stress your successes. That is, make a list if you need to, but write down all of the great things you do every day. Don’t allow doubts to occur in it.
It very well might be that you are experiencing a negative self-image because you can’t move past one flaw or weakness that you see about yourself. Well, roll up your sleeves(袖子) and make a change of it as your primary task. If you think you’re silly because you aren’t good at math, find a tutor. If you think you’re weak because you can’t run a mile, get to the track and practice. If you think you’re dull because you don’t wear the latest trends(潮流), buy a few new clothes. But remember, just because you think it doesn’t mean it’s true.
The best way to get rid of a negative self-image is to realize that your image is far from objective(客观的), and to actively convince(使确信) yourself of your positive qualities. Changing the way you think and working on those you need to improve will go a long way towards promoting(促进,晋升) a positive self-image. When you can pat (拍) yourself on the back, you’ll know you’re well on your way. Good luck!
1.You need to build a positive self-image when you _________.
A.dare to challenge yourself
B.feel it hard to change yourself
C.are unconfident about yourself
D.have a high opinion of yourself
2.According to the passage, our self-images _________.
A.have positive effects
B.are probably untrue
C.are often changeable
D.have different functions
3.How should you change your self-image according to the passage?
A.To keep a different image of others.
B.To make your life successful.
C.To understand your own world.
D.To change the way you think.
4.What is the passage mainly about?
A.How to prepare for your success.
B.How to face challenges in your life.
C.How to build a positive self-image.
D.How to develop your good qualities.
5.Who are the intended readers of the passage?
A.Parents. B.Adolescents(青少年).
C.Educators. D.People in general.
He is the man who for many people has been a role model. Now your biggest hero deserves a special day when you can express your thanks and let him know ____1.___ important he is to you.
The third Sunday of June – which ___2.__(fall) on June 19 this year – is Father’s Day.
The idea of Father’s Day came from ___3.___ American woman called Sonora Smart Dodd in 1909. Dodd wanted a special day ___4.____( honor )her father. He raised six children by ____5.__after his wife died. Dodd thought there needed to be a day to honor loving dads.
The first Father’s Day ___6.___(celebrate) on June 19, 1910. In 1924, US President Calvin Coolidge supported the idea of a _____7.____(nation) Father’s Day. Finally, in 1966, President Lyndon Johnson declared(宣布) the third Sunday of June __8.____ Father’s Day.
Here are some ways to show your love and respect:
*Send him a greeting card. Fathers prefer cards __9.___are not too emotional. So choose one that will make him laugh.
*If he has a computer, cover his desktop ___10.__ words like “I love you Dad”.
*A small present, such as a framed photo of your family, can make him feel like a king.
"Everything happens for the best, "my mother said whenever I faced disappointment, "If you 21 on, something good will happen some day."
Mother was right, as I discovered after graduating from college. I had 22 myself for a sports announcer. So I went to Chicago to knock on the door of every station and was 23 every time. In one station, a kind lady told me that 24 stations wouldn't employ a person without 25 since I had just graduated. "Go out in the town and find a small station that might give you a chance, "she said.
I returned to Dixon, where I had finished my high school education and had 26 in the school football team. My father said that our town had built a store and wanted a man to manage its sports department. The job sounded just 27 for me but I wasn't hired.
My disappointment had 28 as if by design. "Everything happens for the best," Mum 29 me. Dad lent me his car to look for a job. I tried WOC Radio Davenport. The program director told me they had already hired an announcer. 30 I left his office, I asked aloud," 31 can a fellow get to be a sports announcer if he can't get a job in a radio station?" Suddenly, I heard the director 32 . "Do you know anything about football? " Then he asked me to 33 an imaginary game. It was easy, and I did it without difficulty. The director was 34 and told me I would be broadcasting a game on the 35 Saturday.
1. A.put B.take C.move D.carry
2. A.devoted B.designed C.found D.enjoyed
3. A.invited B.promised C.refused D.accepted
4. A.large B.all C.no D.small
5. A.experience B.examination C.agreement D.college
6. A.played B.joined C.taken D.fought
7. A.possible B.successful C.right D.important
8. A.shown B.disappeared C.resulted D.turned
9. A.woke B.advised C.demanded D.reminded
10. A.While B.After C.Before D.So
11. A.What B.How C.Whenever D.Wherever
12. A.calling B.answering C.broadcasting D.announcing
13. A.make B.act C.broadcast D.play
14. A.moved B.sorry C.thankful D.satisfied
15. A.future B.coming C.last D.later
How dirty the floor is! You should have someone _____ it at least twice a day.
A.mop B.to mop C.mopping D.mopped
Our neighbor offered to look after our baby while we were away, ____ was very kind of her.
A.it B.that C.which D.such
Never judge a man by his _____ alone — you might be fooled by what he looks like.
A.appearance B.character C.intelligence D.application