What do you do when somebody hurts you? Do you want to hurt that person back, or do you hold it against them for the rest of your life? If you answered “yes” to these questions, know that you are like most people. To forgive is something that most people generally have difficulty with.
People don’t forgive readily, because it is easier to hate than to forgive. Some people think to forgive is a sign of weakness, but actually to forgive takes courage and effort.
Forgiveness is a gift from a generous heart. It is not a reward for good behavior. It is not based on whether the person deserves it or whether the person has asked for it.
Besides, forgiveness is an act and a process, which often takes time. The deeper your pain, the longer it usually takes to completely forgive. It is an act because it is not just the words you say, but also your actions which show if you’ve truly forgiven someone.
Forgiveness is necessary because it releases you from the burden of bitterness and hate. It takes a lot of energy to hate and to keep that hate in place. Hate puts unnecessary stress on your body. It is a well-known fact, proven by numerous studies, that bitterness and hate can actually make you sick. The moment that affected people forgive and let go of their hate, they will start to get well. Forgiveness brings freedom, whereas revenge (报复) is neither sweet nor satisfying.
I have personal experience of this. I used to be very cynical about life and didn’t forgive easily. At the time, I also struggled in every area of my life. Things just didn’t seem to work out for me. It is as if everything that could go wrong, always went wrong. That was until somebody told me to take a look at my attitude. And when I forgave those who wronged me and changed my attitude, everything else changed. It didn’t happen overnight. It took a while, but I could see and feel the difference.
Are things not working out in your life, despite you doing all the “right” things? Is it possible that you are holding “unforgiveness” in your heart? It is worth thinking about. By Leonard J. Roost
1.Why is it hard for people to forgive?
A. Forgiveness means not giving in.
B. Forgiveness depends on good behavior.
C. Forgiveness needs good will from both sides.
D. Forgiveness requires courage and generosity.
2.What can we conclude from the text?
A. Hate may actually cause illness.
B. Revenge helps to reduce the hate in your heart.
C. When you feel sick, it makes it difficult to hate.
D. Hate goes away when you say you will forgive.
3.Which of the following shows the development of ideas in the passage?
A. B. C. D.
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It’s a quiet, comfortable hotel overlooking the bay in an uncommercialised Cornish fishing village on England’s most southerly point. If pop music is no longer your strong point, and you are considering a relaxing holiday where the scenery is breathtaking and the sound of the sea is live music to your ears, come and stay with us. For adults only. Sssh! Don’t tell everyone!
TEL: 01326 280464
It’s a quiet, comfortable hotel overlooking the bay in an uncommercialised Cornish fishing village on England’s most southerly point. If pop music is no longer your strong point, and you are considering a relaxing holiday where the scenery is breathtaking and the sound of the sea is live music to your ears, come and stay with us. For adults only. Sssh! Don’t tell everyone!
TEL: 01326 280464
2. Willapark Manor Hotel
Peaceful situation in 14 acres of separated gardens and woodland, overlooking picturesque bay. Close to coastal path and beach. Excellent cuisine. Our excellent service brings our guests back year after year. Children (reductions) and pets welcome.
TEL: 01840 770782
Peaceful situation in 14 acres of separated gardens and woodland, overlooking picturesque bay. Close to coastal path and beach. Excellent cuisine. Our excellent service brings our guests back year after year. Children (reductions) and pets welcome.
TEL: 01840 770782
3. The Country Garden Hotel
Delightful hotel set in lovely gardens; calm Island of Wight near Tennyson Downs. Great food! Garden, sea view and ground floor rooms. Please call for brochure and sample menu. Adults only and pets welcome.
TEL: 0800 980 1943
Delightful hotel set in lovely gardens; calm Island of Wight near Tennyson Downs. Great food! Garden, sea view and ground floor rooms. Please call for brochure and sample menu. Adults only and pets welcome.
TEL: 0800 980 1943
4. Boscastle
Romantic 17th Century farmer’s cottage in countryside with splendid coastal views. Well equipped. Sleeps 5. Regret no pets/smoking. Garden with furniture.
Brochure: 01633 450417
Romantic 17th Century farmer’s cottage in countryside with splendid coastal views. Well equipped. Sleeps 5. Regret no pets/smoking. Garden with furniture.
Brochure: 01633 450417
5. Godshill
4 star self-served units. Non smoking. Sleeps 2-4. Open all year. Good walks. Close to pubs. Peaceful. Comfortable. No pets.
Brochure: 01983 840371
4 star self-served units. Non smoking. Sleeps 2-4. Open all year. Good walks. Close to pubs. Peaceful. Comfortable. No pets.
Brochure: 01983 840371
6. The B1akeney Hotel
Overlooking harbour, traditional privately owned friendly hotel with 60 bedrooms, lift, heated indoor pool, spa bath and saunas. Relax, walk, sail, play golf, explore the Norfolk villages, countryside and coast. Tourists only. Special seasonal midweek price for aged citizens.
TEL: 01263 740797
Overlooking harbour, traditional privately owned friendly hotel with 60 bedrooms, lift, heated indoor pool, spa bath and saunas. Relax, walk, sail, play golf, explore the Norfolk villages, countryside and coast. Tourists only. Special seasonal midweek price for aged citizens.
TEL: 01263 740797
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TEL: 01962 776967
1.Which of the following is advertised in a humorous way?
A. Boscastle. B. SW France. C. Godshill. D. The Bay Hotel.
2.All of the following hotels are close to the sea EXCEPT ______.
A. SW France B. The Blakeney Hotel
C. Willapark Manor Hotel D. The Country Garden Hotel
On a recent sunny, dry fall morning, I found the last outdoor table at my favorite café. Reading ______ I nibbled my breakfast, I was enjoying the feeling of the cool breeze and the warm sun when a table next to me ______. A woman who had been standing nearby, ______ waiting for a seat, stepped toward the table. But from the other ______, straight from the parking lot, came a man who got to the table first.
The woman, with a ______ on her face, explained that she’d been ______ that table for several minutes and had been on her way over. The man, also smiling but ______, told her she was out of ______; he had happened upon the table first. “You snooze(不注意), you lose!” he said cheerfully.
She stood off to the side, clearly disappointed, and ______ her friend with the frustrating news. I sat at my table, ______ the scene, when suddenly it occurred to me—I had a(n) ______ here to be kind.
I stood up and ______ her over to my table. Quietly, I told her I had seen what had happened, and I was happy to give her my table. I was only going to be there a few more minutes ______, so I was happy for her and her friend to have the ______.
“But where will you sit?” she asked. I was almost done eating, I said, and I would find a seat at the counter ______. She thanked me and beamed(堆满笑容) as she ______ for her friend to sit down.
Thinking about it as I finished up, I realized that whether or not the woman had fair ______ to the table was unimportant. The emotion of the situation—the look of hurt on her face—had ______ me, and I had the ability to do something about it.
That isn’t always the case with every feeling, situation, or injustice we ______ unexpectedly in our days. But as the early 20th century writer Orison Swett Marden once said, “Don’t wait for extraordinary opportunities. ______ common occasions and make them great.”
I just hope that woman’s morning at the café was great. I know mine was.
1.A. till B. after C. as D. before
2.A. closed up B. opened up C. looked up D. showed up
3.A. hesitantly B. clearly C. seemingly D. steadily
4.A. entrance B. angle C. gate D. direction
5.A. smile B. shock C. glare D. gaze
6.A. monitoring B. watching C. minding D. wandering
7.A. firm B. impatient C. elegant D. reluctant
8.A. order B. luck C. shape D. place
9.A. served B. compared C. loaded D. greeted
10.A. taking down B. taking up C. taking in D. taking over
11.A. scene B. opportunity C. access D. passion
12.A. followed B. guided C. signaled D. rushed
13.A. anyway B. someway C. somewhere D. anywhere
14.A. floor B. spot C. moment D. kindness
15.A. downstairs B. upstairs C. outside D. inside
16.A. gestured B. headed C. waited D. sent
17.A. passage B. claim C. approach D. admission
18.A. shamed B. surprised C. struck D. scared
19.A. repeat B. hate C. tolerate D. meet
20.A. Mark B. Hold C. Celebrate D. Seize
—Dear me, I just fell down and ripped (扯裂) my stockings!
—Oh, honey, you'll be fine. ____________.
A. It makes me laugh my head off B. Luck is smiling on you
C. It’s no use crying over spilt milk D. Laughter is the best medicine
The price of the house is reasonable and I love its garden _________. We can grow flowers and vegetables there.
A. in general B. in particular C. in brief D. in common
Was it ________ the international conference that made the city the focus of this area?
A. to hold B. hold C. held D. holding