Keeping secrets is a burden
“Don’t tell anyone”. We hear these words when someone tells a secret to us. But it can be hard to keep a secret. We’re often tempted to “spill the beans(说漏嘴)”,even if we regret it later.
According to Asim Shah, professor in the Menninger Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Baylor College of Medicine, US, keeping a secret may well “become a burden”. This is because people often have an “obsessive and anxious urge to share it with someone”.
An earlier study, led by Anita E. Kelly, a scientist at the University of Notre Dame, US, suggested that keeping a secret could cause stress. People entrusted(受委托的) with secrets can suffer from depression, anxiety, and body aches, reported the Daily Mail.
But with secrets so often getting out, why do people share them at all? Shah explained that people often feel that it will help them keep a person as a friend. Another reason people share secrets is guilt over keeping it from someone close to them. A sense of distrust can develop when people who are close do not share it with each other. “Keeping or sharing secrets often puts people in a position of either gaining or losing the trust of someone,” according to Shah.
He added that talkative people could let secrets slip out (泄露).But this doesn’t mean that it is a good idea only to share secrets with quiet people. A quiet person may be someone who keeps everything inside. To tell such a person a secret may cause them stress, and make them talk about the secret. Shah said that to judge whether to tell someone a secret.
Shah said that to judge whether to tell someone a secret, you’d better put yourself in their position. Think about how you would feel to be told that you mustn’t give the information away. Shah also recommended that if you accidentally give up someone’s secret you should come clean about it. Let the person know that their secret isn’t so secret anymore.
1.What does underlined word “obsessive” mean?
A. Unwilling.
B. Confusing.
C. Wanting to do something very much.
D. Refusing to accept facts.
2.What did researchers at the University of Notre Dame discover about secret-keeping?
A. It can result in mental and physical problems.
B. It can help promote friendships between people.
C. It can harm relationships between friends
D. It can result in a sense of distrust between friends
3.What is the main message of Paragraph 5?
A. It’s better to share your secrets with quiet people.
B. Quiet people suffer less stress from keeping secrets.
C. Talkative people are unlikely to keep secrets.
D. It’s not a good idea to share your secrets with others.
4.What does Shah suggest people do if they give away someone’s secret by accident?
A. Stay away from the person.
B. Tell the affected person what happened.
C. Exchange a new secret with the person.
D. Buy the person a gift as an apology.
The Boy Made It!
One Sunday, Nicholas, a teenager, went skiing at Sugarloaf Mountain in Maine. In the early afternoon, when he was planning to go home, a fierce snowstorm swept into the area. Unable to see far, he accidentally turned off the path. Before he knew it, Nicholas was lost, all alone! He didn’t have food, water, a phone, or other supplies. He was getting colder by the minute.
Nicholas had no idea where he was. He tried not to panic. He thought about all the survival shows he had watched on TV. It was time to put the tips he had learned to use.
He decided to stop skiing. There was a better chance of someone finding him if he stayed out. The first thing he did was to find shelter from the freezing wind and snow. If he didn’t, his body temperature would get very low, which could quickly kill him.
Using his skis, Nicholas built a snow cave. He gathered a huge mass of snow and dug out a hole in the middle. Then he piled branches on top of himself, like a blanket, to stay as warm as he could. By that evening, Nicholas was really hungry. He ate snow and drank water from a nearby stream so that his body wouldn’t lose too much water. Not knowing how much longer he could last, Nicholas did the only thing he could—he huddled(蜷缩) in his cave and slept.
The next day, Nicholas went out to look for help, but he couldn’t find anyone. He followed his tracks and returned to the snow cave, because without shelter, he could die that night. On Tuesday, Nicholas went out to find help. He had walked for about a mile when a volunteer searcher found him. After two days stuck in the snow, Nicholas was saved.
Nicholas might not have survived this snowstorm had it not been for TV. He had often watched Grylls’ survival show. Man vs. Wild. That’s where he learned the tips that saved his life. In each episode(一期节目)of Man vs. Wild, Grylls is abandoned in a wild area and has to find his way out.
When Grylls heard about Nicholas’ amazing deeds, he was super impressed that Nicholas had made it since he knew better than anyone how hard Nicholas had to work to stay alive.
1.What happened to Nicholas one Sunday afternoon?
A. He got lost.
B. He broke his skis.
C. He hurt his eyes
D. He caught a cold
2.How did Nicholas keep himself warm?
A. He found a shelter.
B. He lighted some branches.
C. He kept on skiing.
D. He built a snow cave.
3.On Tuesday, Nicholas _____.
A. returned to his shelter safely
B. was saved by a searcher
C. got stuck in the snow
D. starved where he was
听下面一段独白,回答以下小题。
1.When were the first amusement parks built in the U.S.?
A. In the 1700s.
B. In the 1800s.
C. In the 1900s.
2.What can we know about Coney Island?
A. It was an attraction for the rich in the early 1800s.
B. It’s no longer popular with people today.
C. It began to appeal to the working class in the 1820s.
3.What does the entrance fee cover in most U.S. theme parks?
A. Gifts and souvenirs.
B. Food and drinks.
C. Shows and rides.
4.What is the talk mainly about?
A. Amusement parks on Coney Island.
B. The facilities in U.S. amusement parks.
C. The development of U.S. amusement parks.
听下面一段较长对话,回答以下小题。
1.How did the woman sleep last night?
A. She slept well.
B. She woke up once.
C. She had bad dreams.
2.What does the woman worry about this morning?
A. Her difficulty in breathing.
B. The meeting at school.
C. The rush-hour traffic.
3.What does the woman probably decide to do this weekend?
A. To work on her paper.
B. To teach a few classes.
C. To attend a writing course.
听下面一段较长对话,回答以下小题。
1.What is the woman’s problem?
A. Her passport is out of date.
B. Her password is not recognized.
C. Her past work is left unfinished.
2.Where should the woman go to solve her problem?
A. The IT Center. B. Frost Hall. C. The Student Center.
3.On what day does the conversation take place?
A. Monday. B. Tuesday. C. Wednesday.
What do we learn about the speakers?
A. They are unwilling to wait for Jack.
B. They can’t see Jack’s grade.
C. They are eager to see Jack’s reaction.