In their book, Nine Lies About Work, Buckingham and Goodall make a surprising claim: they argue that giving people feedback (反馈)-in the sense of telling them what you think they're doing right or wrong, and how to do it better-is never worthwhile. This runs counter to a current corporate trend for "radical candour", for example at Netflix where, according to recent reports, employees' failings are cruelly "sunshined" in front of others. When someone is fired, hundreds of their former colleagues might receive an email, cataloguing their flaws (缺陷). But it also contradicts an assumption most of us bring to our lives as parents and friends-that it's helpful, at least sometimes, and providing you do it nicely, to explain to people where they're making mistakes.
Buckingham and Goodall don't just claim you should keep that knowledge to yourself: they claim that you don't possess it, and that, in fact, you probably don't know how a failing employee could most effectively change. It's an old cliche (陈词滥调) of marital advice that you should use "I-statements"rather than" you-statements", telling the other person how their behaviour makes you feel, rather than attacking them for being selfish and incompetent. The standard theory is that you-statements cause people to respond defensively. But another is that you're a terrible judge of whether someone is selfish or incompetent. As Buckingham writes: "The only area in which humans are an unimpeachable (无懈可击的) source of truth is that of their own feelings and experiences."
Plenty of research shows we're particularly bad at rating people against abstract criteria, which means one common feature of workplace performance reviews- assessing whether an employee is, say, a strategic thinker or team player-is essentially pointless.We should replace this sort of judgment with "reactions". Don't tell others what you think of their skills, or how good you think they are; instead, focus on describing your experience of their work. You're no good at judging how someone else should change their approach to delivering presentations. But you're the authority on whether a given presentation was persuasive or boring to you.
And positive reactions, they show, work better than negative ones: we excel "when people who know us and care about us tell us what they experience and what they feel, and in particular when they see something within us that really works". There's a deep point here- that the best kind of praise focuses on how someone made you feel, not on evaluating their talent. Praise them for inspiring you, persuading you, or helping you grasp a complex issue. You really are the only objective judge of that.
1.The underlined word"it"in Paragraph 1 refers to"_______”.
A.giving people feedback
B.cataloguing colleagues' flaws
C.contradicting parents’ assumption
D.keeping that knowledge to yourself
2.Feedback is never worthwhile in that_________.
A.people tend to defend it
B.it is based on theory and truth
C.it is subjective and lacks uniqueness
D.people will effectively change themselves
3.Which of the following is the most appropriate to comment on others?
A."You have done a good job in the mid-term exams."
B."I am inspired by the creative ideas in your presentation.
C."You just think of yourself,but never care about others."
D."I'm sorry to say you have failed to meet my expectations."
To Machu Picchu and Cusco, searching for the lost Inca (印加人)city
Climb its towering staircases to a ceremonial temple set in the mountain face. These ruins mark the start of the 4-day Inca Trail to Machu Picchu, one of the world's most rewarding hikes. A quicker way to reach the remote Inca city is catching the train to the riverside town of Aguas and then jumping on a bus into the misty mountains.
Once the clouds rise from the mountain ridge above the Sacred Valley, the true splendor of Machu Picchu is finally revealed. It's a humbling experience to stand at an altitude of nearly 8,000 feet, and gaze down at the Inca city below. Overlooking the glorious ruins, it's easy to imagine the prosperity (紧荣) this peak must have been almost 600 years ago.
It's one of the world's greatest mysteries what became of the Incas who inhabited Machu Picchu.What was once major defense works in the largest empire on Earth was slowly swallowed by the jungle, only to be uncovered a century ago. The Inca dynasty has come and gone, but Incan families still survive in the highlands. These modern-day Children of the Sun still speak Quechua and continue to live off the land, although many come to Cusco to sell their crops and woolen textiles.
After dusk, when the story of the Incas becomes a whisper in the night, Cusco is covered under a starry blanket. A landscape so gorgeous that it deserves to be preserved for ever.
1.The attraction of Machu Picchu lies in_____.
A.its towering staircases B.its changeable weather
C.its natural scenery and culture D.its wilderness and inaccessibility
2.We can learn from the passage that_______
A.the Incas like to stay up chatting
B.Machu Picchu is a military base
C.the Quechua language is lost to the world
D.what happened to the Incas remains unknown
I moved to a new city and took a job in marketing. I didn't really understand whether it_________me. I enjoyed doing things that I felt had_________—I could see their benefit and feel their impact. As the months passed, I felt it just wasn't for me. I needed to find a way out.
A job advertisement for a(n)_________for a new youth magazine came at exactly the right time. I applied and was_________. My role was to help teams of young people edit their_________and help them with their work. I had assumed the magazine would be a(n)_________of games and dull reviews, so I was_________when one of the first pieces written was about social welfare._________, I found something I was interested in.
I felt a_________in me straight away. I had a purpose again. Days were lost to discussing hot topics and__________the words of their strong and opinionated (坚持己见的) voices.__________in their world, I could see myself making a difference to the team's__________ability. As our website__________increased and the work shifted to reflect what our__________wanted, I developed a greater__________of what young people might want to read.
The biggest change the job brought, __________,was to my well-being. It is rare you find yourself in a job you love, one that you are happy to__________each day. I was thriving (充实)in this__________environment, inspired by the talented young people I was helping to__________their careers. Now, I realize that there are jobs that will keep you happy,__________and inspired.
1.A.messed with B.applied to C.relied on D.waited for
2.A.purpose B.convenience C.restriction D.entertainment
3.A.reporter B.lawyer C.editor D.typist
4.A.independent B.intelligent C.successful D.ambitious
5.A.courses B.references C.software D.content
6.A.replacement B.mixture C.innovation D.symbol
7.A.amused B.embarrassed C.touched D.surprised
8.A.Naturally B.Generally C.Frequently D.Finally
9.A.contrast B.shock C.change D.shame
10.A.reading B.translating C.spelling D.copying
11.A.Trapped B.Hidden C.Invested D.Imagined
12.A.gaming B.marketing C.writing D.communicating
13.A.hits B.pages C.profits D.advertisements
14.A.monitors B.sponsors C.colleagues D.audiences
15.A.distinction B.understanding C.expectation D.recording
16.A.though B.instead C.otherwise D.therefore
17.A.go into B.leave behind C.refer to D.set aside
18.A.troublesome B.creative C.tough D.conservative
19.A.transfer B.rescue C.discipline D.further
20.A.lucky B.popular C.energetic D.honest
— I will go to the bank to pay for the electricity bill.
— _______? Actually, you can use Alipay.
A.Why bother B.So what C.Why not D.What for
The application of AI technologies in health care industry is in an initial stage compared with_______ in automatic driving.
A.it B.that C.those D.ones
Under the regulation, restaurants and hotels shall stop offering throwaway items_______customers request them.
A.since B.once C.unless D.until