We often talk about ourselves as if we have permanent genetic defects (缺陷) that can never be changed.“I’m impatient.” “I’m always behind.” “I always put things 21 !” You’ve surely heard them.Maybe you’ve used them to describe 22 .
These comments may come from stories about us that have been 23 for years—often from 24 childhood.These stories may have no 25 in fact.But they can set low expectations for us.As a child, my mother said to me, “Marshall, you have no mechanical (操作机械的) skills, and you will never have any mechanical skills for the rest of your life.” How did these expectations 26 my development? I was never 27 to work on cars or be around 28 .When I was 18, I took the US Army’s Mechanical Aptitude Test.My scores were in the bottom for the entire nation!
Six years later, 29 , I was at California University, working on my doctor’s degree.One of my professors, Dr.Bob Tannbaum, asked me to write down things I did well and things I couldn’t do.On the positive side, I 30 down, “research, writing, analysis, and speaking.” On the 31 side, I wrote, “I have no mechanical skills.”
Bob asked me how I knew I had no mechanical skills.I explained my life 32 and told him about my 33 performance on the Army test.Bob then asked, “ 34 is it that you can solve 35 mathematical problems, but you can’t solve simple mechanical problems?”
Suddenly I realized that I didn’t 36 from some sort of genetic defect.I was just living out expectations that I had chosen to 37 .At that point, it wasn’t just my family and friends who had been 38 my belief that I was mechanically hopeless.And it wasn’t just the Army test, either.I was the one who kept telling myself, “You can’t do this!” I realized that as long as I kept saying that, it was going to remain true. 39 , if we don’t treat ourselves as if we have incurable genetic defects, we can do well in almost 40 we choose.
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–-- I’m afraid you’d better go to the seaside and enjoy a good holiday.
---I can’t follow your advice, ____, thank you very much.
A.instead |
B.therefore |
C.nevertheless |
D.besides |
Sometimes, the entrance tickets are _____ free of charge from the university.
A.available |
B.valuable |
C.imaginable |
D.accessible |
People are advised to be _____ towards the health concerns of their dear ones while burning firecrackers to celebrate the festival, for they contain harmful chemicals.
A.accessible |
B.aware |
C.cautious |
D.sensitive |
We had planned to finish the work before dark, but the heavy rain _____ us _____.
A.build, up |
B.put, up |
C.bake, up |
D.hold, up |
He always dreams of ______ a chance for him to go abroad for further study.
A.there being |
B.there to be |
C.there is |
D.being |